Hello, friend! Welcome to Empowered Faith Media, where we share the perfect love of Christ in the middle of an imperfect world.

I know what it’s like to feel like you don’t deserve good things because of your past. For years, I carried the weight of my mistakes like a badge of shame. As a divorced single mom, I didn’t feel like I fit in anywhere, especially in the church. I thought my failures had disqualified me from a hopeful future.

Maybe your story isn’t divorce. Perhaps it’s addiction, stealing, promiscuity, unforgiveness, or choices you deeply regret. Whatever your past looks like, if you’re feeling unworthy, I want you to know this: God’s love for you is bigger than your mistakes. Once you say “yes” to Christ, your past is exactly that, past. It’s time to walk in the freedom He’s already given you.

Today, we’re going to talk about four things you can do to let go of your past. You don’t have to do them all at once; just start with one until it fits you like a glove.

1. Accept God’s Forgiveness

Psalm 103:12 says, “As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us.” If God has removed your sins, why keep digging them back up? The first step toward freedom is truly believing that nothing you’ve done can outweigh the mercy of Christ.

2. Practice Self-Compassion

Romans 8:1 reminds us, “There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” If God doesn’t condemn you, neither should you. Speak to yourself like you would to a dear friend, gently, with encouragement and grace.

3. Set Healthy Boundaries

If someone keeps reminding you of your past, it’s okay to draw a line. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Your heart needs protection from conversations or relationships that stir up shame.

4. Use Your Past as a Testimony

Philippians 3:13-14 encourages us to “forget what is behind and strain toward what is ahead.” Your past doesn’t define you; it refines you. When the timing is right, share your story. You never know who might find hope in your journey.

A Personal Moment

I remember sitting in my kitchen after my divorce, wondering if I could have done something to change the outcome. I felt like I didn’t belong anywhere. But over time, I began to see how God was using my pain to prepare me for ministry, this very platform where I get to speak to you today. He took my shame and turned it into purpose. And friend, He can do the same for you.

If you’re ready to move from guilt to grace, I’ve created a resource just for you: Walking in Faith: A 30-Day Journey of Reflection and Renewal. It’s a pay-what-you-can workbook (starting at $4.99) designed to help you connect with God daily and embrace the freedom He’s promised.

Keep Your Mind on Truth

Philippians 4:8 tells us to focus on what is true, noble, right, and praiseworthy. When negative thoughts creep in, replace them with God’s promises. Over time, your mind will shift from dwelling on the lies of your past to resting in the truth of His love.

We Are in This Together

Friend, letting go of your past isn’t about erasing it; it’s about releasing its power over you. Accept God’s forgiveness. Be gentle with yourself. Protect your heart. And when you’re ready, turn your pain into a testimony that points others to His grace.

You don’t have to tackle all four steps today. Just pick one and let it become part of your life until it feels natural. As you do, you’ll begin to notice the weight lifting, your joy returning, and your heart opening to the beautiful life God has for you.

You are not your mistakes. You are redeemed, beloved, and free.

If this message touched your heart, share it with someone who needs encouragement today. And in the comments, let us know: What part of your past do you need to release so you can walk in freedom? We would love to pray for you.

Until Next Time, My Friend, Take Care of Yourself and Each Other. 

With peace & love,
Renee